Monday, March 23, 2015

Mourning Our Nation's Tremendous Loss

Woke up around 5am to the saddest news.

Our nation suffered a tremendous loss with the passing of Mr. Lee Kuan Yew today, 23 March 2015 at 3:18am.

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There was a downpour yesterday evening. It was as if heaven started mourning this tremendous loss earlier.

Thank you, our founding father. For without you, Singapore would not have gained recognition from the rest of the world.

I hope your passing had been an easy one, and that you have reunited with Mrs. Lee. But, nothing had been too challenging for you, Sir.

You will be dearly missed and forever a legacy...

Deepest condolences to PM Lee and his family. Thank you for sharing him with us while he lived.

Deepest condolences as well to fellow Singaporeans and those who felt this loss...

Sunday, March 22, 2015

Travel: May 2012 Chelsea International Hostel, Manhattan, New York, U.S.A.

Taiwan hostels such as H132 Hostel (used to be known as Star Hostel) and Hualien11 have pampered me too much. I knew it the moment I arrived at Chelsea International Hostel (CIH)[1][2]. Oh, I only took 2 photos while I was there since most of the time I was out exploring. So, do refer to Chelsea International Hostel's Facebook page[3] for more photos of their interior to get a better idea.

Before I proceed on, I must share that I checked out of CIH and moved into Sleep Inn Jamaica (SIJ) for my last night in New York (NY). It was not an easy move but I just could not stay there anymore. Even if I had to lug my suitcase and 2 bags of 20+kgs down the VERY narrow stairways of CIH, walked 3 streets and down another flight of stairs to get to the subway, I was glad to make the move.

As I have mentioned before in my Hualien11 blog post, there are three main factors that I gauge a hostel by: location, facilities and price. So, was it really all that bad staying at CIH? Well, CIH is located within Manhattan, along 20th Street, between 7th and 8th Avenue. It is located near 3 metro stations (18th and 23th Street on 7th Avenue and 24th Street on 8th Avenue) and served by many subway lines. Hence, a very accessible place. Exploring Manhattan using CIH as the base was much quicker/convenient than SIJ (which require a hotel shuttle bus service after exiting Queens subway station). So, no complaints in terms of location.

Facilities wise, there is free Wifi but only if you are in/near common area, lobby and courtyard. Luckily for me, my room was on top of the dining area. So, I was able to access it in the comfort of my room (though the signal was pretty weak and unstable). So, free Wifi satisfied.

There is a kitchen if you want to whip up a meal for yourself. I did not use it as it seemed to be always occupied by someone. Not to mention that I am pretty much a clean freak (OCD), so I do not feel comfortable using their pots and pans. Mainly, it was because I was out most of the time.

Breakfast provided was pretty decent though the spread they offer do not change much from day to day. Typically, you will find cereals, bagels with the usual jams and butter. Drink wise, there are coffee, tea, milk, and maybe fruit juice. I normally just grab the portions I want and bring it up to my room as the dining area was pretty crowded with people who were either there for the food or for the electric points and free Wifi. Sometimes, I take a bit more and bring it out for my lunch.

Price wise, it cost much more than any hostels which I have stayed in. Perhaps, I was just paying for the convenience of being within Manhattan because it was only slightly cheaper than SIJ! Why the exclamation mark? Well, SIJ was so much larger than CIH in terms of room size. SIJ could fit a Queen size bed with quilt, a wardrobe, a proper desk, bath tub, etc.! The heater worked wonderfully and the breakfast provided looked more appetising.

But CIH? The private room I booked had a single bed, a metal lock, a basin, some open shelves, some hooks to hang your clothes, a heater that only worked below certain temperature. Blanket was provided, but I felt too cold on my 1st night there before the heater even started. For subsequent nights, I wore my jacket to sleep. Yet for all that shortfall, CIH was only SLIGHTLY cheaper.


Where is the bathroom (you might wonder)? It is not within the room. As far as I know, I don't think they have ensuite private room. The bathroom and toilet ARE located outside the room for all to share. Yes, the bathroom and toilet (bowl) ARE in separate rooms. They are connected by the same wall which separates them into two rooms.

The size of the bathroom is SO small, I can't even spread out my arms fully. Mind you, I am very petite. It does its job but I felt like a prisoner in it. It was so unappealing that I did not even take a photo of it. The toilet fits, well, just the toilet bowl in it. That's all. Nothing fancy.

By the way, when I was staying at CIH, my supervisor was in NY with his wife on a vacation too (after our business trip). He kept in touch with me throughout my stay as he was worried for my safety. I am not sure if it was because CIH is located opposite to some sort of police station (I saw a lot of police car parked opposite it), I actually felt quite safe being in NY. So much so that I even walked back to CIH after midnight. So, I guess there is still some good staying there.

Thinking back about my experience staying at both CIH and SIJ, I am not going to save on lodging if I revisit NY again. I don't mind staying at SIJ again especially if I plan to explore outside Manhattan since I had a good experience there. But if I plan on further exploring Manhattan, I will just book a hotel within Manhattan even if I have to pay more than SIJ's rate.

You might be thinking why should I fork out more on lodging since I would be out and about most of my time there. Well, by the time I next visit NY, I would probably be with my family. With QW around, I think I will just pay a bit more for our sanity. If I was alone, then I would go for SIJ. At least I know that if I stay SIJ, there are elevators and I don't have to lug my luggage up and down flight of stairs.

References:
  1. Tripadvisor - Chelsea International Hostel
  2. Chelsea Hostel
  3. Facebook - Chelsea International Hostel

Saturday, March 14, 2015

Craft: Folding a Letter into an Origami Shirt

Handwritten letters are (I think) quite a rarity nowadays. At least for my case, I probably will leave that for special occasions. In this case, I planned to write one for him in commemoration of our ROM anniversary.

Typically after we have written/typed letters (quite rare these days!), we just fold it into halves, thirds or quarters and stuff them into envelopes.

I feel that the typical way of folding a letter is quite boring. Especially more so if the letter is written for a special occasion~

So, what did I do to make it a little more interesting? I married my love for origami with letter folding ;) Hence, I googled for some ideas and decided to fold my letter into a manly origami shirt. It doubled up as a card as well :)

This is where I will write my "essay" to him :)
Difficulty level is (I feel) probably easy to medium. What I like about folding this origami shirt is it does not take long to make one.

I left the YouTube links on how to make the shirt and necktie under below references. For my case, I did not go with the necktie idea. Instead, I drew buttons and pockets on the origami shirt itself. Pardon my ugly drawing.


There you go~ This is just one of the many quick and easy ways to spice things up a little. You can also make an Origami Heart, Origami Aeroplane, etc. Basically, anything that opens up quite quickly.

Hope this helps to make your card a little more interesting/unique =) 

References: 

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Motherhood: QW the Point-er


Yupz. QW points around... A LOT...

She points at everything and anything nowadays *Laughs*

It is as if she wanted to say, "Hey! You there!", "There! I wanna go there!", What's that thing?", etc.

It has been a while since I update her progress. As you can see, she is now officially the house point-er *lol* =P

She started off being pretty floppy. When she was on the bed before her 4th month, all she could was to lie flat facing up.

 Okay, she could do sideways too.

She did her first flip and turn when she was about 4 months old. Ever since she could flip/turn, we no longer need to turn her around for her daily doses of tummy time. She had been one hardworking and flying lady, doing many sets of tummy exercises on her own. Or should I call her the Ultra"Man"? *Haha~*



I tried to do her style of tummy exercise (1 set only) and she earned my respect immediately. Boy, that really sapped my energy! Super tiring!
That's why I am so tired mummy/daddy!
Let me take a nap first~

And, she learned to support her own weight.
Am I good or what?
This book looks interesting!
Hmm... Which milestone should I unlock next?
Perhaps sitting up or crawling?
Hee~ See "my" youthful hand?
Envy right? =P

Just as I was wondering whether she would sit up soon, she crawled first.
Look mummy/daddy, I can crawl now =)

Then, she learned to sit up.
Our little Kung Fu master~
Yippee!
I have unlocked so many milestones!

Next up, should be standing and walking. 

Oh, let me share that hubby was hoping that she would born with multiple eyelids like me (Ya... mine is not just double eyelids. It is many layers...). Instead, she got his (single eyelid). 

But, we noticed that whenever she wakes up from her nap/sleep, she HAS double eyelids (for that brief moment)!!!

I really have to thank my hubby for agreeing to let me a SAHM. It has been a joy witnessing her milestones thus far. But poor hubby gotta work harder =(

Can't wait to witness more of her milestones =) Grow~ QW grow~ =)

Friday, March 6, 2015

Motherhood: Love/Hate Feelings of Being a Stay-at-Home-Mum (SAHM)

3 months after the arrival of QW, I made the choice to be a housewife/home maker/ SAHM. For someone who had been in the work force for more than 10 years, it was a HUGE change.

Sample reactions (in Singlish aka Singapore-English) of those who got to know that I am a SAHM: "Wah, so shiok no need to work. Enjoy life at home.", "Envy you, got husband support you.", "Wah, you rich leh. That's why no need to work.", "Why don't leave her with your/his parents or at childcare?".

Some are concerned that I may develop depression due to boredom of staying at home. Err... thanks for the concern but SAHM does not mean I am rooted to the house and never go out. Still, I will heed your advice and stay sane by catching up with friends/pursue my hobbies/go out for walks etc.

Some envy me because I escaped from office settings. Other are envious because they think that I am damn filthy rich to be able to forgo my salary. There are also those who think that I will be damn free or I do nothing the whole day. Well, I can only say that life is always greener on the other side of the pasture.

If you think about it carefully, I am at my "work place" almost 24/7 and earn (if lucky) a 3-digits pay out of my freelance projects. If I am not breastfeeding QW, I am wiping the floor, doing the laundry, cooking, etc. How does that sound to you now?

By the way, thank you very much for asking, but I don't believe in leaving her in the hands of others (parents/childcare/maid, etc.). I know it's a norm/choice to send kids off to be taken care of by someone else nowadays. I made choice not to be part of the current norm of being a full-time working mother but an olden days' norm of being a SAHM.

My apologies if I offended anyone. But, why should I leave her in someone else's hands after making the choice to bring her to the world? Why should I miss out being one of the front row audiences of her milestones?

So, how do I feel now? Poor yet rich, good yet bad, secure yet insecure, love yet hate at the same time. Here are some of the reasons behind my conflicting feelings:

Love:
  • We bicker communicate more since we are both at home (he mostly works from home).
  • We get to witness QW's milestones together :)
  • We get to capture moments/photos of QW which she will hate us for in future =P
  • We have a higher chance of eating home cooked meals.
  • We get to enjoy better working environment since I am around to do the house work.
  • I can learn new things at my own pace and usually don't have to report my progress!
  • I can pursue my own interests: baby wearing, blogging, cooking, etc.
  • I can go on a holiday without waiting for boss's approval. Yippee!
Hate:
  • We have A LOT LESS MONEY! *feeling very insecure financially* *crossing fingers that we won't get booted out of the house due to rising SIBOR!*
  • I get to ogle at stuff more often since I have to watch my finances closely. Alright, it's more like I can't afford to buy most of the stuff which I used to.
  • We gave up our car and the nearest bus stop is 5 mins away. Oh, that bus stop has only one bus and a night rider, with a typical waiting time of about 15 to 20 mins.
  • People assume that he paid for our stuff *roll eyes* I am not a Tai Tai!!! and the diapers, rompers, etc. are paid out of my pathetic freelance pay.
  • I get frustrated if I am not given me-time. VERY frustrated.
  • I doubt my own market value.
  • I think/feel that people dismiss my opinion because I am just a housewife.
  • I still hate to do house work. Period. And there is no end to it! *Grrr...*

So before you sign up as housewife or agree to your wife being a housewife, be careful what you are in for.

All the best and have a great day/night ahead!

Thursday, March 5, 2015

Feng Shui: Bedroom Part 1 - Choosing a Bed Frame

Personally, I do not see Feng Shui[1] (suggestions on the placement of physical objects, ambience of the room, etc.) as superstitious hear-say. The more I read up on this subject matter, the more I realised that Feng Shui can be pretty logical and scientific. 

Quick example: Do not place the study table such that your back is facing the door. Logically, if you have your back facing the door, you will feel nervous and cannot sit still because you do not know when someone will approach you from behind. I will share more on Feng Shui of study room in future posts.

In this post, I will blog about the Feng Shui of bed frame. Why? Well, out of the 24 hours in a day, we spend about one-third of a day sleeping. So, Feng Shui of the bedroom (choice of bed frame, placement of bed, ambience of bedroom, etc.) is important as it can affect our sleeping quality. Hence, my decision to write on how to choose a bed frame first.
There are many aspects to a bed frame. After reading up on a few Feng Shui websites[2][3], basic things (not considering high level aspects such as individual's elements, birth year, etc.) to note are:

Body material (wood, metal, PVC, leather, etc.): 
  • Wood is the best.
  • Metal is the worst (give the cold feeling of prison/hospital bed).
Head/foot board (upholstered, solid, patterned, etc.):
  • Whole/solid piece of wood, upholstered is fine too. 
  • Not recommended to sleep in those with patterns/holes, especially those with angular head.
  • Foot board (if present) should be lower than mattress.
Height (futon, space underneath, built-in storage underneath, etc.):
  • Must be high enough for air to circulate through the underneath.
  • Not recommended to sleep in those with storage space underneath the mattress.
  • Not recommended to sleep directly on the floor aka futon style.
Colour:
  • Yin colours (green, blue, grey, black) are preferred.
That's all for a quick sharing to improving our sleeping quality. FYI, other aspects such as shape of head/foot board are not covered here as they depend on individual's element. Hope this gets you interested enough to research more before you buy your next bed frame!

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